How to choose the right baby carrier for you and for your baby

While shopping for your new arrival can be fun, deciding on the best products can be equally confusing for first time parents.

There are so many different types and styles of baby carriers out there and choosing the best product for your needs can seem a little overwhelming. A number of factors will influence your choice, including lifestyle, the baby's size and age and their personal preferences.

You also need to consider the comfort factor for you, too. If you're going to be using your baby carrier a lot, then be aware that the most comfortable position is where the baby is high up and tucked close against your body. Carriers which hang from your shoulders can be very uncomfortable when worn for any length of time, even with a small baby. If you find you have a baby who likes to be carried a lot, you'll need to choose a sling or carrier with broad straps, so that the weight is evenly distributed across your body.

Below, we help you to find quickly the right carrier based on the age of your child. In addition, we explain each type of carrier in detail, along with an honest appraisal of the advantages and disadvantages of each and finally you can learn more about the different carrying positions. Ultimately, your baby will tell you whether or not they like the carrier you choose.

 

Which carrier should I choose for my baby?

  • My baby is born premature or weighs less than 3000 g

    We recommend the stretchy baby slings or the classic baby slings made from woven fabrics.

  • My baby is newborn and weighs more than 3000 g

    Both baby slings, the woven and elastic, are great to use.

    Pouch slings or ring slings are ideal if you quickly want to put on the carrier for short distances.

    Other options are Mei Tais or soft structured baby carriers with an infant insert or an adjustable bar in the child leg's area.

  • My baby can sit (around 5 - 11 months)

    The choice is unlimited. All different type of baby carriers, slings and Mei Tais are perfect for your child of this age.

    You still can use the stretchy baby sling but most likely a woven sling will last you longer with the growing weight of your child.

    A Mei Tai - the Asian style baby carrier - is a very comfy solution.

    A soft structured baby or child carrier is good value for money and will last you until the end of your child or baby wearing days.

    A ring sling or pouch sling is still a good option for shorter distances and is a practical supplement to the other carriers.

  • My child has reached toddler age (from 10 kg to 3 - 4 years)

    The woven baby slings and the comfortable baby and child carriers are perfect - especially for longer distances.

    The ring sling and pouch sling are good for shorter distances and especially if your child wants to walk also by himself and you have to put him often up and down.

     

How do the different baby carrier brands compare to each other?

Brand
Type of carrier
From To
Front Back Hip   Price
from
Manduca Soft structured Birth
3400 g
3-4 Jahre
20 kg
109,00 €
Bondolino Soft structured Birth
3000 g
3 years
15 kg
  95,00 €
Storchenwiege
Baby Carrier
Soft structured Birth
3000 g
2-3 years
15kg
  89,00 €
Boba Carrier 2G Soft structured 7-9 Months
7 kg
4 years
20 kg
  95,00 €
Boba Carrier 3G Soft structured Birth
3500 g
4 years
20 kg
  99,95 €
Carry Sling
Woven baby sling Birth
3000 g
3 years
15 kg
54,90 €
Je Porte Mon Bébé Stretchy/woven sling Birth
Preemie 2000 g
2 years
14 kg
79,90 €
Boba / Sleepy Wrap Stretchy sling Birth
Preemie 2400 g
1 year
15 kg
45,00 €
Tricot Slen Stretchy sling Birth
Preemie 2400 g
1 year
15 kg
49,50 €
ByKay Stretchy sling Birth
Preemie 2400 g
1 year
15 kg
58,95€
Minimonkey Pouch sling
Birth
3000 g
2 years
15 kg
 
39,95 €
Mei Tai Earth Mei Tai Birth
4000 g
2 years
15 kg
  49,90 €
Storchenwiege
RingSling
Ring sling Birth
3400 g
2-3 years
15 kg
62,00 €

 

What are the different styles of baby carriers?


Soft structured

Several styles of carrier fall into this category, with some design variations according to brand and model. Broadly speaking, they are more structured than a sling or wrap, with shoulder straps and usually a waist band. Some are designed for front carrying, some for back or hip, and some are interchangeable. Most of the support for the baby is across its bottom. Many soft structured baby carriers are suitable from birth and will have fold-down panels to ensure baby cannot slip down. Many of these carriers can be used for older babies and toddlers too, and certain styles will offer a larger ‘body’ to ensure good back support for the child.

Child age

From birth until toddler age (3 – 4 years)

Carrying position

Front, back, hip

Ease of handling

Suitable for long distances

Suitable for breastfeeding

Suitable for hot weather

Features

  • Wide padded shoulder straps and waist band
  • One size
  • Infinitely adjustable
  • Different “closing” systems: buckles, hook-and-loop fastening, or for tying
  • Depending on style and brand different practical accessories included (e.g. infant insert, rain cover, foot straps or extra pockets)
  • All models support the correct ergonomic spread-squat position

Pros

  • Very easy to get on and off quickly (fathers like this!)
  • Size is infinitely adjustable according to size of the baby and the carrier
  • Can be used by persons of different size and stature
  • Weight is evenly distributed over the shoulders and hips, high wearing comfort
  • Child can be carried for several hours
  • Style can generally last for longer, in some cases more than 3 years.  

Cons

  • Less compact than a sling
  • Usually a little bit more expensive

Brands: Manduca, Ergobaby CarrierBoba Carrier, Bondolino, Storchenwiege Baby Carrier

 

 

Mei Tai

A Mei Tai carrier has a square or oblong body, with a long waist strap and two long shoulder straps. When used correctly, baby's knees are positioned higher than their bottom and their legs are spread at the hips. This position, known as ‘spread’ or ‘squat’, is good for baby’s hip and spine development. Pronounced “may tie”, this style of baby carrier has a long history. The traditional Mei Tai originated in Asia, where mothers often carried their babies in simple lengths of fabric that they tied to their bodies.

Child age

From birth until toddler age (3 – 4 years)

Carrying position

Front, back, hip

Ease of handling

Suitable for long distances

Suitable for breastfeeding

Suitable for hot weather

Features

  • One size
  • Infinitely adjustable
  • Supportive and soft as a baby sling
  • No buckles, hook-and-loop fasteners or buttons  

Pros

  • Easy to use and to assemble
  • One size fits all and infinitely adjustable according to size of the baby and the carrier
  • Can be used by persons of different size and stature
  • Weight is evenly distributed over both shoulders and hips
  • Lightweight and compact

Cons

  • Breastfeeding is not so easy with this style
  • There is less padding than you get with other, more structured soft carriers

Brands: Mei Tai Earth

 

 

Pouch sling

Pouch slings are simple and easy to use and ideal for newborns. They are made from a single piece of fabric and are worn like a sash, across the shoulder. The fabric folds back on itself to form a pouch for your baby. There are several variations on the pouch sling; some are non-adjustable and some can be adjusted with poppers or zips.

Child age

From birth until 2 years

Carrying position

Front, hip

Ease of handling

Suitable for long distances

Suitable for breastfeeding

Suitable for hot weather

Features

  • Comes in different sizes depending on brand
  • Both hands are free

Pros

  • Easy to use
  • Allows baby to carry in fetal or cradle position
  • Depending on brand can come in one size which can be adjusted according to the size of the baby and carrier

Cons

  • You need to choose the right size if you go for the non-adjustable variety
  • Some women find it hard to get into a comfortable position as you can’t adjust the top edge in the way you can with other sling varieties
  • If carried on your hip you need to support your child with one hand
  • If the size of the pouch is too big your baby is hanging too much in the sling and does not get enough back support

Brand: Minimonkey

 

 

Ring sling

Ring slings are made from a single piece of fabric, which you thread through two rings, to form a loop. The sling is worn over one shoulder and you pull the fabric through the rings to tighten and then secure it. Some ring slings will come with padding across the rings and rails, which some women find more comfortable and others find it makes the sling bulkier, so it is a matter of personal preference.

Child age

From birth until 2 – 3 years

Carrying position

Front, back, hip

Ease of handling

Suitable for long distances

Suitable for breastfeeding

Suitable for hot weather

Features

  • One size
  • Infinitely adjustable
  • Ideal as hip carrier

Pros

  • Easy to put on and take off
  • Child is easy to put in
  • One size fits all and is infinitely adjustable according to size of the baby and the carrier
  • Can be used by persons of different size and stature
  • Light, compact and fold down really small
  • Great for discreet breastfeeding
  • This style also makes it easy to put a sleeping baby down with minimal disturbance.

Cons

  • The weight is only distributed across one shoulder, which can cause some discomfort with prolonged use
  • Less support when bending over

Brands: Storchenwiege RingSling

 

 

Stretchy sling

Sometimes also called ‘wrap around baby carriers’ or ‘wrap around slings’, or simply ‘wraps’, these work on the same principle as other types of slings, but they provide a more tailored fit, as you literally tie the stretchy fabric around the body and then place your baby inside. All elastic slings or wraps are perfect baby carriers for preemies, small babies and newborns providing the closeness and warmth that they crave, as well as the reassuring sounds of mum’s heartbeat. Wrapping the mother or father and her or his baby in a soft and stretchy wrap is a way to provide the essential skin-to-skin contact which is needed by your child so much (kangarooing).

Child age

From birth until 6 – 9 months

Carrying position

Front, hip, back

Ease of handling

Suitable for long distances

Suitable for breastfeeding

Suitable for hot weather

Features

  • One size
  • Infinitely adjustable
  • Very soft and snuggling material

Pros

  • Easy to put on and take off, only one basic knot to learn
  • Child is easily to put in
  • One size fits all and is infinitely adjustable according to size of the baby and the carrier
  • Can be used by persons of different size and stature
  • Great for discreet breastfeeding
  • Good weight distribution over the shoulders allows carrying for several hours
  • Light, compact and fold down really small

Cons

  • After a certain time the elastic cloth needs to be tightened  
  • Less variety of tying knots as the child needs to be supported by 3 layers of cloth
  • Less suitable at very warm weather

Brands: Boba / Sleepy Wrap, Tricot Slen, ByKay, Je Porte Mon Bébé

 

 

Woven baby sling

Babies who enjoy being swaddled will love being carried in a baby sling. Slings also offer a high degree of flexibility: you can wear your baby close to your chest or, when they are older, against your back. Slings offer plenty of comfort for babies and allow the baby to breastfeed without any dramatic position changes. A woven sling or wrap is compared to the elastic sling much less stretchy which means for some of the carrying positions you need to tie the baby wrap around your baby rather than tying the wrap first. Although you need to practice a little bit once you have mastered the simple tying techniques woven slings are a joy to use.

Child age

From birth until 3 – 4 years

Carrying position

Front, hip, back

Ease of handling

Suitable for long distances

Suitable for breastfeeding

Suitable for hot weather

Features

  • Variety of different tying techniques and carrying positions
  • Depending on brand available in different lengths for different knots

Pros

  • Very flexible and highly comforting for babies
  • Can be used for several years
  • Infinitely adjustable
  • Several carrying positions
  • Light, compact and fold down really small

Cons

  • Requires some practice at the beginning
  • Not as quick to put on and take off as ring slings

Brands: Carry Sling

 

 

Organic Baby Carriers and Slings

Most major brands now offer 100% organic cotton baby carriers and slings, while others may use a blend of natural, untreated fibres. At babymaxi, we are keen supporters of organic materials, so regardless of which of the above styles you prefer, you can be sure to find an environmentally-friendly option to meet your needs.

Conventional methods of cotton farming contribute high levels of soil and water pollution through the use of fertilisers and pesticides. Some research also suggests that fabrics exposed to chemical processing may lead to residues being absorbed through the skin.

What’s more, organic cotton is generally softer and stronger because the fabric has not been subjected to harsh chemicals during the production process. Therefore, if you choose organic, it’s not only good for the environment, it’s best for you and your baby, too.

Brands: Tricot Slen Bio, Minimonkey Organic

 

 

Which carrying position is best?

There are various positions in which you can carry your baby, depending on the type of carrier you choose and the size and age of your child. Babies are often pictured in the ‘foetal’ position but there are in fact a number of options, including on the back or even on the hip, once your baby is older and stronger. There is no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ choice, provided you follow the golden rule of safety, namely to ensure that baby’s head is always positioned higher than the rest of their body, and that it is well supported until they have gained good head and neck control. It really comes down to personal preference, but if you’re new to baby carriers, you’ll find the below guide to carrying positions a useful starting point.

Foetal position

The foetal or cradle position is one of the positions recommended for newborns and smaller babies and can be achieved with any type of sling or wrap. To place your baby in the fetal position, wear your sling backwards so the shoulder pad can be used as a pillow, with their head towards the carrying shoulder. For the first few weeks, it is also recommended that you place a folded blanket under baby’s head and body, for additional support.

Front carrier

Newborn babies are still too small to be carried upright with their legs hanging outside. However they get enough support when you carry them in their natural posture – tummy to tummy - with their legs tucked in. This upright position is called kangaroo position or also upright newborn/Infant hold position and is especially recommended for premature babies, newborns and smaller babies. It can be achieved with a baby sling (baby wrap) or ring sling which are great to hold the baby skin-to-skin with his mother or father to give him warmth and comfort, like in the womb.  

When babies are about 3 to 4 months old and they have good head control they can sit upright in the kangaroo position with their legs dangling. We recommend carrying your baby facing you to ensure carriage in the ergonomically correct spread-squat-position which is also called M- or frog position.

You can carry your baby on your front in any sling, Mei Tai or soft structured baby carrier which will have an ‘infant insert’ or where you can adjust the width of the bar in the child’s leg area according to the size of your child. There are a number of variations and you can experiment to see what suits you and your baby best.

Back carrier

When your baby is around 5 months old and when it can hold his head securely, it can be carried on your back using a soft structured carrier, Mei Tai or any type of baby sling. However, if your baby is a wriggler, you may find the single-shoulder carriers a little less secure than the structured carriers and Mei Tais, but it is a useful temporary position if you need your baby away from your front for a short while. As the baby gets older, the back carrying position especially in a soft structured baby carrier is generally favoured.

Hip carrier

After around 6 months old, hip carrying is another option. The hip carrying position can be achieved with a ringsling, pouch sling, wrap, some soft structured carriers and specially-designed hip carriers. This position is usually either a little to the front or the back of your hip. Many babies like this position as they can watch the world go by and still be reassured by being able to see your face. Babies can sleep in this position with their head resting on your shoulder, but naturally this will reduce the mobility of your arm. Some mothers find the hip carrying position quite convenient for breastfeeding.

Stretchy sling